The Name Game: Antiques with Monograms
I was told very early in my antiquing days that having monograms on silverware, vanity items such as hand mirrors, brushes and combs, and jewelry is a negative thing. Having an initial or name can decrease the value by three-quarters or even more. I found this a delightful tidbit of information and began collecting items with monograms immediately. To be able to pay a lot less for something because it had a history made no sense to me and to this day, I revel in the ability to get such bargains.
I recall sitting at an auction, next to a young girl and we had been bidding against each other on a few items. It was a friendly, not combative situation, each of us chiding the other for being “too cheap to raise their paddle again.” When a lovely sterling silver serving fork was held up by the auctioneer, he mentioned the pattern, its age (approximately 1920) and that it had a monogram of an “M” on the handle. I smiled and raised my paddle. I won it for only $20 and gladly received the treasure from the “runner.” My neighbor then asked me if that “M” was special to me, perhaps my name? I laughed and said “no, I was going to use it as a MEAT fork, so the “M” worked for me. She stared at first, sort of digesting my meaning, and then she chuckled. She felt that it was pretty darn clever.
I have owned a set of small compotes for a long time, used when serving cocktails. They are little silver dishes that holds olives, limes, lemons or such. They have a letter “B” on them and I always say that that initial stands for “Barware.” And who can disagree? I also have a few condiment forks with an “O” and I proudly use those to serve…you guessed it – Olives!
Many of my silver mirrors have initials, some with two or three of them. I am especially gleeful when I find one with a family member’s initial. For example, my mother’s name was Ruth and the “Rs” are a real treasure. Or a letter from my last name, either from my maiden name or current one.
I also like to “gift” presents that have an initial, perhaps to my daughter or a grandchild. I love to introduce or encourage “provenance” or history to children. Let them appreciate that once another child looked into this silver mirror, or ate their cereal with a spoon with their initial. Maybe that spoon came from THEIR grandma!
I do not see it as a decrease in value to have it monogrammed, although I suppose if it were a full set of silverware, it would be nice
to have it adorned with your family’s initial.
Perhaps I should not be writing about this because now all you treasure-hunters will think of creative ways to buy items with an initial and raise the prices. But it’s OK, there are enough pieces out there and I wish you happy hunting!








Candlesticks tend to create romantic images in my head. I think of a Victorian era heroine gliding through the night with a candlestick in her hand, illumined by the glow of the burning candle. Or pulling the candle from its candlestick to melt sealing wax on a letter. Yeah, I read too many historical novels, how did you guess?
The word “souvenir” is French for “remember.” Travelers love to bring home a little something from the places they’ve visited, something to help them remember days spent vacationing far from everyday headaches and worries. In the late 1800s someone came up with the idea of creating souvenir spoons and a collecting craze was born.
The popularity of sterling silver souvenir spoons means that there are many antique spoons available on the market for reasonable prices. Most spoons fetch $5 to $40, but a rare spoon will cost more. While they can be found in antique shops and malls, for sheer volume of choice the internet is your best bet. As always, when purchasing online make sure to ask a lot of questions, especially about the condition of the spoon. Dings and scratches don’t necessarily show up in photos. Also, souvenir buyers frequently had their` names engraved onto the spoons which can bring down the resale value, so make sure to ask about any inscriptions.
Another area of spoon collecting is more modern mini souvenir spoons. These spoons are usually stainless steel or silver plated with an enameled design at the top. These spoons are inexpensive and colorful. They often bear the name of a state, but also can be found for amusement parks, state parks and other tourist attractions. Some like to collect one from every state they’ve visited and display them on the wall, while others aim for a full set of 50 states.
I love the look of a dining table beautifully set with snowy white linens, pretty china and gleaming silver flatware. There’s just something charming and old-fashioned about the look. I used to devour the photos in the now defunct Victoria magazine showing lovely table settings. That is why I began collecting antique sterling silver flatware. Over time I’ve built up a beautiful collection of sterling silver pieces that I can pull out on special occasions and display in my china cabinet at other times.
